1)      The one thing that is very important that most men do not realize is a woman readies herself long before the actual sexual encounter even occurs. Yes, this means that from the moment you go to dinner or do something together you are setting up her ability to climax. Giving her your undivided attention will ensure her that you are looking to make her happy

2)      Make sure she is comfortable. If she is not relaxed she will not be able to reach her climax as quickly. Making sure you are not rushing otherwise she may lose some interest. Your goal should not be selfish, when both partners are giving, rather than taking it makes the difference between a bad sexual encounter and a good one.

3)      When you are undressing her, do it slowly. Lightly caressing can also stimulate a woman allowing her to climax during this time. This can build up anticipation especially if you are giving her light kisses on her neck and shoulders. Anticipation can drive a woman crazy with hormonal instinct causing her to open up to you more easily.

4)      Pay attention to every part of her body from her lips down to her feet. Kissing and touching shows a woman that you enjoy every part of her body and will make her very excited. A big part of this is also watching body language and facial expressions. This will be what lets you know if you if you are exciting her. Moans and groans, body movements all of these are very important. The more she makes the better you are doing, if you are not getting this reaction change up the routine a bit.

5)      Oral sex can make a woman come if done correctly. Make sure you are paying attention to all of the areas surrounding the vagina. Thinking that stimulating her vagina or clitoris alone can do the trick is a big mistake. Keep her guessing, the more surprises you give her the faster she will reach her climax.

If you follow these simple steps you will be on your way to making a woman come. Remember, every woman is different and you should mold these steps to her personality. The more you try to please her the better your sex life will be in the long run.

1)      Mental

a)       For both men and women, emotions are a part of the ability to orgasm. Women, more so then men need to be emotionally happy in order to climax. It is said that if a woman is depressed or angry, she will not be able to reach a climax easily if at all.

i)        Ideas that can be used to please her emotional state are things such as, setting the mood with candles and dinner. Also a “quickie” can sometimes be just what she needs.

ii)       You have to judge how you set the mood by the type of woman you are with and the mood she is in. Giving her what she needs from the beginning will make it just that much easier in the end.

2)      Physical

a)       Obviously the physical part of any sexual relationship is important. If the sex is not good the woman will most likely take much longer to climax if she ever reaches it at all. This is also true for men, so play around and see what works for the both of you.

i)        For men with a smaller penis- Be sure you are penetrating deep enough. If you are not filling her you may not be hitting the “G-spot”. If this is the case there are penile exercise routines that can help you enlarge your penis to better stimulate the area.

ii)       For larger men- Make sure you are not going in too far. This can cause a woman pain and may be the mood killer that stops her climax dead in its tracks. If you are running into this problem try backing out a little or putting a hand on the base of your penis to stop it from going in too deep.

Understanding how to make a woman orgasm can be hard. Today there are internet forums, blogs, and articles dedicated to making this easier for men. Do some research and find out as many tips as possible. Then try the ones that you think will help you and your partner.

Foreplay

• Foreplay can stimulate a woman and make her excited enough to have a fast orgasm. This may take some time to learn because each woman likes different things. When you have figured out what to do to make her happy, use that to get her ready and able to reach the orgasm faster.

Sexual Position

• There are many positions that can be tried, from “missionary” to the “piledriver’. It is best to try a lot because each one has their advantages and each woman likes different things. Also, when you have been together a while it is nice to have a change.

Penetration Depth

• Deep or shallow women each are unique and so the depth that pleases them most will vary. You must be sure that you are not going too deep because for a woman, once that happens it may hinder the ability for her to orgasm all together.

Dirty Talk

• This is an option you have but, not all women enjoy talking dirty. The best way to find out is ask or you could also just try it and see if she reciprocates. Talking dirty could be just the spice she needs to get to her climax faster.

Pay Attention to Her

• This is what helps you realize what she likes. Facial expressions and moans or the lack there of are what you look for. If she does not seem excited then change whatever it is you are doing. This important step can keep you hitting her “G-spot” and get her to orgasm faster. This can also let you know what pace to go at as well.

Controlling Ejaculation

• Women unlike men need more time to climax. Your goal is to last until she has finished and controlling your ejaculation will allow her to get to the climax before you do. The longer you last could also result in her having multiple orgasms when combined with the other steps.

Using these step are sure to help you make any girl orgasm faster. Practice the techniques and eventually you will have it down to a science. Your woman will thank you and you will be thanking yourself, when your sex life has gotten even more fulfilling.